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I'll meet you on the other side (of grief)

Grief, ugh, what is it good for... I remember visiting a Catholic church 2 years ago and talking to a woman about the grief I felt over getting divorced.  She shared that she had been through divorce years previously.  She said that, for her, God disappeared during the divorce and that God was waiting for her on the other side.  My interpretation on her wise words is that things will get better even though we cannot see that when we are inside the storm of grief.  I shared that story because there is some truth in it.  I am exiting the eye of the divorce, grief storm.  My life isn't perfect but I feel significantly happier and more stable than I did during the separation and divorce process.  It's been one year since our divorce was final. The question that you may be asking yourself is, "Did Colin find God on the other side?"  I found something, although I'm not sure that I would call it God.  I experience more moments of joy and simply feeling okay.  I don&#